Not everyone wants to be touched, kissed, or interrupted while they’re working—especially when they’re exhausted. Consent and respect don’t take a break just because you’re in a relationship. If your partner can’t handle a “no” without retaliating or ruining what you’ve accomplished, that’s a giant red flag waving in your kitchen sink. You’re allowed to set boundaries, even while doing chores, and anyone who loves you should honor them—not dump them back into the dirty water. #NarcissisticAbuse

being interrupted while hyperfocusing is pain 😖 #adhd | Kojo Sarfo