More here 👇 As an avoidant, I used to think that solving the problem was the key to making my partner feel heard. But all I was doing was silencing her emotions. Every time she came to me with frustration or sadness, I’d throw out solutions to fix the situation. But I wasn’t solving the problem… I was avoiding the emotion. And in doing that, I made her feel alone in her vulnerability and I got frustrated because it felt like she wasn’t appreciating my efforts. The shift came when I stopped givi

Dancing with more than one partner in a random format calls for ~creative problem solving~ 😂 Format - Random PartnerS / Random Song 📍 - Swingtacular - San Francisco, CA 🎶 - Could x @Elderbrook 💃 - Emily Huang @emollee 💃 - Bryn Anderson 🕺🏿 - KP Rutland #dancers #westcoastswing #wcs #wcswing #modernswing #swingdancing #swingdancers #dance #improv #improvdance #partnerdance #danceawesome #foryou #foryoupage #fyp #elderbrook | love begins